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Confessions of a Compulsive People Pleaser

Servant People Pleaser

You have to stop.

I knew the look on her face from the other side of the line.

You’re exactly like your dad you know, never saying no to people and always feeling bad about it. I don’t understand how you, who have such a Rambo mom, can let people use you like that.

It’s not the first time we’re having this discussion. And I know it’s not the last time either.

Truth is, I can’t say no to people, no matter how much I want to. The word simply will not cross my lips.

As a matter of fact, it gets worse than that.

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Oxymoron: Lessons on Effective Behavior From Parisians

Paris as seen from the Montparnasse by Ros_K on Flickr

Ever heard about the Paris syndrome?

It is what Wikipedia beautifully refers to as “a transient psychological disorder.”

Long story short, it’s a matter of people’s expectations going down the drain upon visiting the French capital.

Well that’s refreshing.

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Speaking to Say Nothing – The Ultimate Time-Wasting Sin

Steal. Cheat. Lie.

These are just a few examples of things most of us would never consider doing.

Interestingly enough, many people do not hesitate a second to commit a cardinal sin in personal, and particularly professional, life: waste people’s time.

In the merry family of time-wasting sins, one stands taller than the others. I present to you: Meaningless Talk.

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Icon of Meaningless Talk

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